The following tips won’t eliminate the risk of a sexual assault, but they might reduce it. Remember that any person of any age or background can become a victim of sexual assault. A person who is sexually assaulted should never be blamed for the crime committed against him/her. A sexual assault is an act of power and control by the offender and in no way reflects who the victim is.
- Be cautious of people unknown to you or whom you know very little.
- Don’t give your home address or phone number to someone you just met.
- Go to a public place to visit with someone you met on the Internet.
- Drive your own car when going out on dates; you can leave more easily if necessary.
- Remember that jealousy isn’t love.
- Never answer your door if you don’t know the person on your doorstep.
- Always lock your car and home doors, even if you’re inside.
- Park your car in a well-lit, public area.
- Look under your car as you approach it in a parking area.
- Look in your car before opening the door.
- Walk and carry yourself with confidence and assertiveness.
- Always listen to your inner voice; it’s usually right.
- If attacked, fighting back may or may not be your best option. Go with what you feel is best for the situation.
- Try to resist being kidnapped. Where you are when an attack begins is always better than where the attacker plans to take you.
- Never leave your drink unattended while talking, dancing, using the restroom, or making a phone call. A sex offender can take the opportunity to introduce a drug into your drink and cause you to be vulnerable.
- Do not stop to help a stranger. Instead, use a telephone in a safe place to call for help.
- Do not be afraid to cause a scene; if you feel uncomfortable
with someone, do what is necessary to leave.